Stephen touched many lives in many different ways. Share your thoughts, comments and anecdotes with his family and friends so they too can take comfort in knowing how truly loved he was and how he will continue to live on in our hearts.

You came first into one family but grew and touched so many
You came into our family and joined us all together
You came into our lives with a twinkle in your eyes
No one knew what you had in store for us
What a great and fabulous surprise you were

You became the love of my brother’s life
You became another son to our parents
You became the little brother I’d always wanted
You will always be part of our lives and in our hearts
You taught us so much

I’m glad we all met you
I’m glad we all could love you
I’m glad we all were able to share you
Such a short time, but oh so much quality

You certainly didn’t let your illness stop you from living your life
You definitely joined the Cabaret
You were a star like no other
You will always be a star to me

While our lives will not be so bright, the sky at night will be brighter with your brilliant shining light in it.

Sorry it's taken so long, we love you Steve. We love you too Bruv, don't try and rush yourself, take your time. It takes as long as it takes to find the new 'normal' for you.

Love always
Michelle & Dave xxx

Will be missed by many. xxxx

You were a great inspiration to me Steve & i'll never forget that. Sleep well sweetheart xxx

I worked with Stephen for a few years at CIS and was saddened to hear that he had lost his brave fight. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the Love of his life Mark and his family for their loss. He was such a wonderful Guy and lived life to the full. I will never forget him and his kind and thoughtful ways x x x

bye!bye!enid sweetheart i'm sure your entertaining them somewhere up there xxxxxxxxxx connie

Steve, I never really knew you, but sometimes I wish I had. Because anyone who made my friend Mark feel the way he does must have been a very special guy indeed. Life is cruel, sometimes too cruel to mention. "The world passes us by, it doesn't realise, the turns that our lives can take, the pain that our hearts bare, the tears that our eyes cry, the path that we must walk, on the road that leads us nowhere." X

For Steve and Mark - My wonderful friends

However brief, it is the quality of that friendship that really counts.
Our friendship will continue, because you will always be here with Mark and in the hearts of your friends and family.
I am so happy to have known you Steve and thank you for also bringing Mark into my life.
The two of you together radiated such special vibes. After your visits, I would feel a lasting, gorgeous, warm glow of "The Love of Life" and a feeling that my path in life was right and true.
I'm deeply touched to think that my floating and eBay antics inspired you, but you both always inspire me on many levels. Particularly your positivity and I loved bouncing ideas with you both.

Farewell Steve, my Astral Twin xxx and see you soon Mark xxx

Jacqui (Narrowboating eBayer and Steve's Astral Twin.)

Mark,
When I first met the two of you on the door at View, the first thing I noticed was how stunning and smart you were.Steven always had a kind word and a smile whenever you met him. I will miss that reasuring smile, whenever I saw Steven and I was feeling low, he lifted my spirit with a kind word and that smile, always smiling thats how I will remember him.Sleep well wonderful man.

Rose and I are neighbours to Steve,Mark,Tanya and Lawrence as well as providing a guest house to their cats Marmalade and Tiggi.
Following the news of his illness Steve's optimism,bravery and courage were remarkable. He was a truly inspirational character and we were privileged to have him as a neighbour and will never forget him.
Our best wishes and condolences go to Mark,Tanya and Lawrence and their extended family and to Steve's Mum and Dad and all Steve's family on that side.

We were Steve's in-laws but we didn't class Steve as our son-in-law he was our son. He was a special lad who we loved so much and will miss him much more than we can ever describe. The four of us have lived together in our home called Y Cwtch, to those who don't know what this means is 'A Hug' and that is what our home has been like, lots of hugs and full of love.Our home will never be the same without our Steve.
It is so heartbreaking watching Mark without his love of his life beside him. They were always together, they have done so much in the short time they have been together, more than some people do in a life time. We had many laughes especially when they were doing their drag, seeing the boy's in their costumes they alway's had a different look and asked what we thought of that costume.
Lawrence had many a photo with his girl's, never to be repeated but never forgotten.
Steve was so brave dealing with his illness he never complained, even when he had his headaches it would only be if we asked that he would say he had a headache. If you saw Steve during this time without seeing his scar,he looked well so it was hard to accept the illness.Steve just wanted life to go on as normal didn't want any changes and this is what we all tried to do for him.
We love you so much Steve, good night love see you in the morning.......

When I worked with Steve at BT we had some good times - the best one was - our Xmas doo at Spirit and Steve was our DJ we had a fab night. Thinking of you all. Monica.

I used to work with Steve at Bt for a few years.We bcame close friends and often went out after work for meals and drinks.
I always looked forward to work to see Steve as he always had me rolling about laughing.We had some brilliant times.Cant believe hes gone.My thoughts to all the family.
He was such a kind person and as we know loved his costumes and make up He came to work once dressed as one of his favourites,Lisa Minnelli for charity and for my 4oth birthday he and his mum organised a buffet for me at work.
Rest in peace,will see you on Friday.

Luv,
Jan

Steve was a wonderful man who brought so much joy and happiness, not only to Mark and his family, but to so many. His courage in these last few months and ability to focus on the needs of others was truly inspirational. He will always be remembered with love and laughter.
Our hearts go out to Mark and your families. We know that there is nothing we can say to make this any easier but our thoughts are with you and if there is anything we can do just let us know.
With much love.
Mel and Donny xxx

my deepest sympathy to all of steve's family and freinds.

Words seem to fail me at this moment and as as anyone who knows me this is not a common occurence. I first met Steve whilst working at sheffield poptastic and was in coplete awe.
Steve took me under his wing and turned me from a boy in a dress into a drag queen :)
We shared so many wonderful times and steve was always there with a kind word, a funny story and love. An amazing heart, an amazing soul who will be sorely missed by all who knew him. The words Ollie has written from the wicked song say just a part of how I feel too but no words can ever truly convey the multitude of emotions I'd love to express.
I'm so glad that Stevemet Mark too and it is an example to all that what you give out you will recieve back ten fold. I will love you both always as you are imprinted deep on my heart forever. XxX

I first remember meeting Steve as Enid outside Poptastic back in what feels like the 1800's! He was working the door dressed as a superhero. I instantly fell in love with him. It wasn't until a number of months later that I met Steve properly in Blackpool. We had a wicked time hosting a night there and then dragged our old carcasses around the pleasure beach. I was talking yesterday with Jamie about how he was asking for a blow dry on one of the Roller Coasters as we went under a jet of fire. Good Times! There's sooooo many stories about the amount of trouble we used to get ourselves into travelling all over the place for nights out, events, etc. One of the funniest was when we went to Essential for Sye's birthday and Steve and I got separated from the rest of the group... Next we hear Steps and Tragedy come on! We make a B-line for the stage and are ready hands in the air to go for a full perfectly choreographed rendition of the wonderful number.... as the track changed! Yes you guessed it we'd timed it completely wrong and arrived at the end of the song. Steve just turned to me and said, Oops... guess we best go have a sherry to get rid of these red faces!

There was a point at which I didn't go an hour without texting him or a day without calling. I always said that positive mental attitude will carry most people through life and that Steve was one of the most positively mental people I've ever had the honour to meet. I used to call him my sister and am so happy and privileged to have known him and been as close to him as I once was! When Steve met Mark I remember thinking... Someone that has always treated everyone in his life so well, it does come good and you obviously do get it all back in the end! Steve and Mark I will love you both forever and always.

The lyrics from Wicked's For good, sum it all up perfectly I think: - I've heard it said, that people come into our lives for a reason. Bringing something we must learn, and we are led to those who help us most to grow, If we let them, and we help them in return. Well, I don't know if I believe that's true. But I know I'm who I am today, because I knew you! All My Love Always. Ol xXx

I remember Steve from around 1994 when we were both teenagers, we all used to hang around together up Clarksfield and Salem in Oldham, those were the days. I remember him to be very witty and funny, and I will never forget how he was there for me when I had trouble with a local lad around that time. He took me into his house one afternoon in the school holidays, got me some ice cream and a drink (as I wasupset and crying) and together we listened to his Phantom of the Opera CD in his room and chatted loads about life and things (even though I was only 13 and he was 15. ) From then on I was hooked on theatre and musicals. We also had fun at Heaton Park not long afterwards, we went on one of those peddle boats with 2 other kids we knew at the time, which ended up being an experience in itself. The boat nearly capsized and me and Steve nearly eneded up soaked!!

Fast forward a couple or so years, and we managed to get back in touch when I bumped into him in Oldham town centre. He was still as funny as I remember and I remember us having a meal out in Oldham in 2005. He was telling me all about Miss Whiplash and his life, also Mark, his home and his pets, and I can honestly say I have never laughed so much in my entire life!!

Although we werent close friends by this point (our lives had taken off in different directions) we were still friends and text one another and phoned now and again. We both had extremeley busy lives but managed to keep in touch.

I will always remember Steve as once seen, never forgotten. He was witty, funny, very down to earth, kind and fantastic to talk to, the sort of person you could talk to about anything (and I did over the years!!) I know we never managed to meet up half as much as I'd have liked, but I feel blessed to have been a friend of his, and I hope he continues his entertaining in the next world. Rest in peace Steve, I miss you xxx

I met Steve as Miss Whiplash when I was running Sheffield Poptastic and he used to come over to run the door alongside Bambi. When Poptastic ended in Sheffield, Steve remained a friend and he helped out with the setting up and running of Fairy Likuid. Known as Mama to most most of the staff, he always took the time to talk, help and support those who needed him. He hosted the nights and always put on a great show and many, many great costumes.
The memories are too numerous to mention them all but a few that stick out for me are running across the road at Piccdilly as we were late for our train to Sheffield and us nearly getting knocked over by a car that was advertising a sex shop... funny as we had a suitcase full of condoms for distributing at the club. Then there were also the nights leading up to each Fairy Likuid when we would gather at my flat to make outfits and the glitter and feathers would still be found weeks later.
But my lasting memory is the time that Steve came to the flat to share Christmas day with Sye and I. He insisted we had to go to Spar to get some sherry - in fact we made two trips and we managed to cook the Chicken upside down as we had no clue what we were doing! I still drink sherry to this day, and I have Steve to thank for that and all the wonderful memories.
xxx

only knew of you steve via btbuddies. just been looking through all the beautiful pics on here and my absolute favourite is the one of both you and mark called blackpool 09 both dressed in black looking lovely together. im glad you are suffering no more and hope you continue to party hard. sending my love and best wishes to mark and both families xxx

i think ste was funny and allways there if u wanted to chat bout anything and showed me how to do a dance move . and everyone loved him and i will miss him dearly. allways going to be missed.!! and allways in our hearts.

dear mark and families of both , steve and you are such special friends he will be in my heart and thoughts for ever you both touched me and my partner i hope me and him will be a special and good as you both where my love and hugs go to you all at this sad time im sure he will be draging heaven in to the gay 21st century he will be showing the how to party love to you all steve and dyl aka henryetta hardon xx

Steve though not a close friend was still a friend to me, a truly fabulous and lovely guy who always had time for me when I saw him or messaged him and I really did appreciate that.

He was one of the few genuine ones around the village, one of the ones you could trust.
Love and thoughts to Bobbie/Mark and both families.

To Steve, your show may be over down here but up there the stage lights shine bright, give em sparkle girl it is Showtime!.
One day as Mark said you will be re-united in that heavenly showbar and together you can keep em entertained up there.

Oh and make sure they all have tights, make-up and lashes too, I know Petra and Foo-Foo will have already been on the blower asking about pan-stik and blending powder.
The drag didn't define you, it was just one facit of you as a person and a wonderful person you were and I am sure you still are now that you are up in those clouds.

See you sometime soon.

Roxy Rivers xx

Dear Mark, Elaine, Alan. Tanja, Lawrence and all your families,

I am so very sorry for all you have been through this past week. I wish things could have been different for you all :(

My thoughts are with you and you know where I am if there is anything at all I can do or if you just need a shoulder.

To Steve, you had such an impact on my life over the last few months. You showed great concern for how I was doing, you provided me with some wonderful blankets etc to cheer me up when I was ill and supported BT Buddies tremondously with your radio interview and mask decorating! You also provided me with a friendship I will cherish forever and I am so glad I got to spend time with you and Mark in lovely RAINY Manchester last month. I know that the stars will have extra sparkle tonight, you will be missed xxx

To Mark, there are no words, just know I understand and am here for you any time x.

And finally, to Elaine, Alan Tanja and Lawrence, my thoughts are with you too as I know how devastating this must be for you.

Thinking of you all and hoping memories of happier times will bring you some comfort now and in the days and weeks to come.

Your BT Buddy,

Natalya xxx

The most amazing Son to Alan & Elaine, The best "Big Brother" to Aaron, and a cherished Grandson to Mary. My true soulmate, partner and friend and a much loved and appreciated friend to many many people around the world.

Stephen loved his friends and family, he loved his life, he loved the stage and above all he loved seeing the smiles he brought to peoples lives. I hold on to; and take comfort fom knowing I have thousands of happy memories with you and because of you. From our first date at Ikea to our marriage less than 18 months later, from holidays and "us" time through to travelling the UK with a suitcase of frocks and car full of kit but most recently our walk last Saturday along the banks of the canal where we chatted about the trips we would make along there in our narrowboat home working on our newest venture.

I miss you pud, the pain seems to double with each passing minute but I am trying not to cry for what I have lost but with joy for all the good times we shared. You're gone too soon from my side but I know you will be with me every day. I sense your warmth but long to see your beautiful blue eyes, your cheeky smile or feel your arms embrace me just one more time.

I still love you more with each passing hour and my heart will be broken until the curtain goes up on our encore and we meet again...

Mark x